then how do??
ok let me answer it soon..
but let me clarify i am not a male chauvinist and respect women to the highest possible social limits...
it started off on a not so eventful afternoon when i ended up asking two of my friends to mail me what they want in their lives ??
mail one: financial stability (read lot of money and other assets), freedom (read big swoosh cars and other material possesions ) , a companion (with qualities like beautiful,loving, understanding etc..) and ......
mail two :a wonderful family (read a wonderful family only :) ), a companion (loving,caring understanding and responsible and sensible), and then comes financial stability so as to have secure future for the family..
mail one is by a male and mail two is by a female friend of mine..
and despite being the one who desires all of them (yaa all of them but not with the same priority rating), i would agree more so to the mail two as more meaningful...
many of my friends do yearn for the mail one (some females included but for a different reason)..
like to control their destiny and be the driver of their own lives, and be able to shape it the way they want.. (but ending up losing track because they get hooked up to some one who is chasing a stupid dream of being materially content and emotionally dented)...
whatever, i am not the one to discuss further on that, (atleast as of now)
the crux is i found that women have more meaningful dreams (if they are their own)
and since they are special, ya they are they desreve something special in life..
and what about a SANTA???
ya someone who will be there around them, (someone who is not chasing an idiotic dream and the stair that he is trying hard to climb is not leaned to the wrong wall of biases and idiosyncracies) and give them enough wings to dream more and then stand by them (by trusting them genuinely) so that they soar high to realise their dreams (WELL IRONICALLY that requires maturity to understand that "your dreams give me happiness too", which i found in my gym hitting and all time boozing friends...)..
but hey the story actually begins here,
look around there is already a santa around you but you havent identified him yet for sure... why ?? because.not all the santas sing and come out asking for your wish, santa's are a shy creatures ,contrary to the father christmas...
by the way , same applies to men too but after they undergo a shock therapy and realise that they deserve a fairy too :)
see you when you have found yours :)
well, i would say go and search for him, he is somewhere near
